You Don't Have to Keep Fighting the Same Fight.
Whether you're a couple stuck in the same cycle or ready to go deeper with structured support, there's a place for you here.
Every fight has something deeper going on underneath it. My work, whether in a live seminar or a small-group cohort, is built around figuring out what that is and giving you real tools to change it. Every offering below is rooted in the same framework from my book Why We Fight, adapted for where you are in your journey.
The Conflict Reset: One-Day Virtual Seminar
A focused, live day together where we work through the Why We Fight framework in real time. You'll leave with a clear picture of your conflict cycle, a practical de-escalation plan, and the tools to stop the same fight from happening again. Held quarterly. High impact.
Virtual · Quarterly · Limited SeatsJoin the Waitlist →10-Week Conflict Resolution Cohort
A small-group coaching experience built for couples who want more than a one-day reset. Over ten weeks, we unpack the root causes of your patterns together, rebuild emotional safety, and practicing new skills with real support. Multiple cohorts run simultaneously; enrollment is limited intentionally.
Virtual · 10 Weeks · Cohort Model · Limited Per GroupJoin the Waitlist →Not Sure Where to Start?
If you've read the book and want guidance on which offering fits your situation, I'd love to connect.
Send Me a MessageLooking for Ongoing Coaching?
For individuals and couples seeking consistent, personalized support, my team at Polinder Coaching Group works with clients around the world. PCG offers one-on-one coaching rooted in the same conflict resolution framework, with practitioners trained in trauma, attachment, and nervous system regulation.
Visit Polinder Coaching Group →“Working with Kim completely changed how my husband and I handle conflict. We finally stopped replaying the same argument.”
— Madelyn, Couples Cohort
“I didn’t think one day could shift this much. We left with actual tools, not just hope.”
— Rob & Melissa, Conflict Reset Seminar
“Kim is the perfect balance between warm and competent, and so skillful when working with the volunteers. If you like a well structured step-by-step approach to your mindset and how to influence your own behavior, you will love Kim.”
— Katerina, Cohort Participant